Some time ago, I posted advice to tangueras, but here I'd like to delve a little deeper.
In the early days of my tango journey, I worked hard on learning to execute the figures being taught, struggling to replicate sequences and decorations. I was expected to do my share of the figure, regardless of how it was being led by my partner. I thought decorations were essential, expressive tanguera accessories. When reflecting on the results at the time, effective and elegant are two adjectives which do not immediately spring to mind.
Then I began learning about good technique - thanks largely to hours working with the maestra de los maestros, Aurora Lubiz. My body was trained to be ready, able, relaxed and responsive to the music and to my partner - whoever that might be for the next tanda.
After some years of dancing and learning, another critical piece of the puzzle eventually fell into place for me. It was about my state of mind. It was about being truly in the moment and surrendering to the dance - entrega. For this, I needed to
- be confident with my partner, but not dominant
- surrender and be actively responsive
- allow the music to possess me, yet not preempt how my partner might respond to it.
Ladies, forget about the flashy moves and decorations. With sound technique and the right state of mind, you can dance successfully with any good milonguero.